r/AmITheA**hole For Calling The Cops On A Woman Who Stole From Me?

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r/AmITheA**hole In today's episode, OP has a garden in his backyard where he grows vegetables. After his new neighbor moves in next door, he goes out to garden one day and finds his neighbor and her teenage kid stealing vegetables right out of his garden. He called the cops, naturally, and now this Karen is trying to convince everyone in the neighborhood that OP is a butthole for calling the cops on her because she should be allowed to steal his vegetables. Theft is theft, lady!
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  • My gf tricks my dog with the prospect of treats to have him sit up from his bed when he doesn't wanna, but just to have him jump on our bed cuz we wanna cuddle him and he doesn't want to cuz he's old:))))) also he's a little fat for his surgerized hip so treats are not that good for him, but he is a crazy eater.

    brainlicker33brainlicker33Päivä sitten
  • i can see that he is sort of envious of her having a 6 figure "salary" working for 4 hours a day but like in most cases of being salaried is you still have to do work here and their when your off of works like sending emails and communication with people what needs to get done and what such, so i can understand how he is concerned that she is treating her salaried job like it is just hourly and isnt going above and beyond to push her position by working harder and longer.

    Aidan KelleyAidan KelleyPäivä sitten
  • I wouldn't call the brother a woman hater because he doesn't understand some people want to look good for themselves and not for the sake of others chauvinist is really not the right word for it.

    Daniel GorodetzkiDaniel Gorodetzki4 päivää sitten
  • the title sounds logical on why would you call the cops. but sometimes the stories are like that woman has a disability. so it sometimes can actually be wrong.

    djordje rocenovicdjordje rocenovic4 päivää sitten
  • Nah man, on the internet you only get 5/5 buttholes on the first story if you arent a dog person. Cat people and dog people fight like cats and dogs, appropriately enough. Besides, I'm sure the little demon was already plotting OP's downfall so it's not like it's not justified.

    MaugreMaugre4 päivää sitten
  • 5:14 except OP’s wife is a sleezebag? Remember?????!!!!!

    Matty Bruno Lucas Zenere SalasMatty Bruno Lucas Zenere Salas5 päivää sitten
  • 1:17 the only one going to hell is YOU! How DARE you let your coloured biased opinion be lead Into this! He is NOT a butthole at all! PS all cats have autism and have half the brain power of dogs FACT

    Matty Bruno Lucas Zenere SalasMatty Bruno Lucas Zenere Salas5 päivää sitten
  • Sorry but where is the one from the thumbnail?

    Izuku MidoriyaIzuku Midoriya6 päivää sitten
  • Me: *feeds my cat only 5 times a day* R/: BETRAYAL!!

    Izuku MidoriyaIzuku Midoriya6 päivää sitten
  • The last story, awesome hubby!

    Ramona AndersonRamona Anderson6 päivää sitten
  • how is the first story bad? we have to do it to the dogs all the time to get them to stop eating the garbadge

    Tadhg McDermidTadhg McDermid6 päivää sitten
  • I know I've been dressing up and wearing makeup at home just to feel normal and have something to do. Makeup isn't just for other people. I honestly don't care if I'm attractive to anyone else but my partner and he doesn't care what I wear. It's fun to dress up and send him pics, tho.

    Trixie von MothersbaughTrixie von Mothersbaugh6 päivää sitten
  • When it comes for the guy whos bothered by his GF's 5 hour work days, I understand your point, but I don't like how dismissive the GF sounded the way OP portrayed her. I also agree with her point on how the BF has no say in the matter. I kinda wanna give them both 0.5 for how they handled it. There has to be more to that story though.

    ShadowsArchShadowsArch6 päivää sitten
  • Cats are assholes anyway. Most selfish pets ever.

    David OrtizDavid Ortiz6 päivää sitten
  • First story: People, he's just screwing around. He's just kidding. Relax.

    Ahlanna SheaAhlanna Shea7 päivää sitten
  • First reddit post is not abusing her cat it might be cruel but it’s not abuse.

    Naruto UzumakiNaruto Uzumaki7 päivää sitten
  • First one not the biggest hole

  • I mean the makeup story the husband did the right thing but that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be opening his eyes to the possibility of her cheating sure it could be she just felt like bringing back an old hobby of hers But in most marriages that would be a HUGE red flag just saying

    Riun LaroseRiun Larose7 päivää sitten
  • i heard rSlash's personal story, good god i hope you get a lot of money for how much you work

    SCP - 173SCP - 1737 päivää sitten
  • 1:04 WOW, rSlash you are now being the butthole yourself and rather rude at that. You just told her indirect to go to hell, just because she doesn't give the damn cat some treats. Yes she shouldn't be doing that and it is allowing the cat to get disappointed and learning new bad things. But telling someone to go to hell isn't the solution in this case. rSlah, regarding your youtube 'career', let's be fair. That is a choice YOU made, no one else. YOU decided to start making youtube video's instead of finding a job that would offer you better times, vacations, better pay, etc. That would be a YOU problem. It can't even compare to what OP in that story goes trough as OP works a regular job and putting in a hell lot more time then he should according to his job requirement. It's rather butthole behavior to say that your situation is the same. All due respect, but damn what happened this day of the recording that made you such a selfcentered ahole for a day?

    SIG442SIG4427 päivää sitten
  • rSlash I literally jumped when you said "Nicole". I did not realize I had the same name as your wife.

    Shiku theTempestShiku theTempest8 päivää sitten
  • Who was abusing there cat

    AJ playAJ play8 päivää sitten
  • So OP is mad because their girlfriend more money then them. Why it’s her job not her that is the problem so blame the company.

    Connor MurrayConnor Murray8 päivää sitten
  • the one with the cat id say the person gets 3/5 the cat gets 2/5

    PeglegPegleg9 päivää sitten
  • Psychologists have shown that sporadic reinforcement is the most powerful. You are doing exactly the right thing to train your cat. I am a cat lover though I only have one now.

    SnorgviggleSnorgviggle9 päivää sitten
  • Nightclub neck up, bed rat neck down

    a ca c9 päivää sitten
  • I say 4.5 out of 5 for the BF jealous of his GF.

    T ST S9 päivää sitten
  • Lol you act like your “reading reddit blogs” is the hardest of FIworld jobs. You also can take vacation because FIworld does still pay you for old content views. Not at all knocking on the FIworldr podcaster job/life. It’s a legit job but also not a fair comparison for what the redditor was going through. Especially since most youtubers (besides maybe let’s plays) have to put in considerably more work and uploading often might be required because people are less likely to watch old videos depending on the content. While your content is pretty hard to get dated and likely to get steady views even years after uploading.

    T NonnameT Nonname9 päivää sitten
  • Okay, so the first story: the person was not the a-hole. She wasn’t giving her cat a treat to save money, keep her cat healthy, and keep her cat safe. She should just use a different tactic if it upsets people so much. .5/5 The second story: the person is kinda an a-hole. The gf might slack off, but she is bringing home a big paycheck and is doing her job, slacking or not. Also, bf is okay because he still does his hardest. 1.5/5 The third story: the person is not the a-hole. The title is kinda off putting but otherwise the person let their emotions take control of them and that was good, because she shouldn’t have had to live with people who didn’t want to live with her. 0/5 The fourth story: the person is kinda the a-hole. He shouldn’t have shouted out a childish name like he did and should’ve approached it more calmly, but the bro wouldn’t stop, so it was fine. 1/5

    Ghost LeviathanGhost Leviathan10 päivää sitten
  • If your wife is doing anything without you knowing everything about it there is no reason to shut down the conversation. Then you have to take into consideration if he's not asking his wife about her make up because of the malicious explanation being the correct one. Asking her doesn't need to be a debate, but not asking her and you are voluntarily ignoring her.

    PM inkPM ink10 päivää sitten
  • First story about the cat: B.F. Skinner, wasn't wrong. Operant Conditioning is a thing. It even works on humans lol.

    Matthew ColvinMatthew Colvin11 päivää sitten
  • The first one is funny lol

    Full force FulmerFull force Fulmer11 päivää sitten
  • The girl in the thumbnail looks like she tried to cosplay Jill Valentine in the 90s

    ꨄ s u s h i ꨄꨄ s u s h i ꨄ11 päivää sitten
  • lmao the funniest thing about Op #1 is that inconstant treats is supposed to be the fastest and longest lasting way to train people and animals to form new skills/habits

    RosieRosie12 päivää sitten
  • I guess OP in the second story never heard the phrase "work smarter not harder". Her roommate not working hard doesn't mean that she isn't earning her pay. In fact, because of the pandemic, people working from home maybe the new way of working on the job. I'm sure though that if she were back in an office setting she wouldn't be able to work in all the breaks and lunch as she does at home.

    Noah EllisNoah Ellis12 päivää sitten
  • To OP of first story its not nice to tease but its not crule if you did it to my cat I would jokingly call you mean or a tease but that's it your girlfriend making to much of a big deal out of this though if you do this to much you might want to watch your back cats don't get mad they get even so keep that I mind next time you think about tricking your cat 😂

    TigeresscrazyTigeresscrazy12 päivää sitten
  • Cat comment. Everyone I know who has cats does this. I do this. Too many treats will make a cat fat.

    Polar Bear HeroPolar Bear Hero12 päivää sitten
  • waitt who stoleee?!

    fairy scoutfairy scout12 päivää sitten
  • You should not always Try to give a treat to an animal Taken back them up and have serious problems down-the-line it is like giving a kid candy

    chaotic black stallionchaotic black stallion12 päivää sitten
  • The story with the jealous bf I can understand if he gets angry like that but isn't that ok it's frustration is it not ok to be angry when frustrated I don't know I'm young and have anger issues can someone please tell me what's wrong?

    Edschel ChangEdschel Chang12 päivää sitten
  • The dude who's wife started doing make-up was NOT too harsh to his brother. The first comment could be seen as genuine concern, but when OP told him that's not what's up amd the brother got more pushy and insistent, that is asshole behavior and most likely came from a place of insecurity. I LOVE his response to "have you asked her why she started doing her makeup?" Because that is the only correct answer. The world needs more spouses like that!

    Luthian DiyaLuthian Diya12 päivää sitten
  • First story, I hope that calling that abuse and giving the OP 5/5 is hyperbole Is OP being a little mean? Yes Is OP THA? Yes Is it much ado about nothing in the grand scheme of things? Yes Sincerely, a crazy cat dad

    DragonriderabensDragonriderabens13 päivää sitten
  • See you guys in hell then!

    MrPayDayMrPayDay13 päivää sitten
  • Did anyone else miss the whole “theft” story or am I going crazy? Is rSlash gaslighting us?

    Olivier FlegoOlivier Flego13 päivää sitten
  • I get the sarcasm but seriously who cares if the cat doesnt get a treat? Its not like she's starving the cat and you cant have them even accidentally breaking your stuff. We manipulate humans worse than that on a daily basis and we're worried about cats??? LOL come on.

    StanStan13 päivää sitten
  • First Story: r/mademyday

    AkiyoshiL 66AkiyoshiL 6613 päivää sitten
  • As a woman, I collect eyeshadow palettes and makeup and play around with it literally just for fun and as a creative outlet. Good on that husband for recognizing and respecting his wife’s right to do what she wants with her money and time.

    Becca ABecca A13 päivää sitten
  • I do that with the cabinet door when we need to lure two of our cats out of hiding because they know that's where their food is kept. I'm not going to give them a treat every time though because that is also where the human food is kept. But that doesnt stop them.

    snickykitty22snickykitty2213 päivää sitten
  • You definitely got the last 2 completely wrong. Both OP were being the assholes. The girl was because she couldn't understand and it's like to be a parent spending literally all your time and money trying to keep your dying child alive. I don't think they went about it the right way either, but she was definitely an asshole too, both parties were the same amount of assholishness. The guy getting all defensive about his brother just trying to help sounds like he is in denial. He even said his and his brothers wife are best friends who talk everyday. I guarantee you the brother wouldn't have brought it up without his wife telling him something she learned about her "best friend." The brother was definitely not the asshole, but OP definitely was and sounds like a simp in denial. Also the fact that he is too afraid to ask her just shows he is afraid of what the answer might be.

    GKXPressGKXPress13 päivää sitten
  • Its not her fault she finessed the game completely

    Dr. Jingles7Dr. Jingles713 päivää sitten
  • Most people who assume people are cheating are cheaters themselves.

    winnkeywinnkey13 päivää sitten
  • wow just wow, imagine getting shitty with someone because they dont let themselves get taken advantage from there workplace, and earns a wage they deserve.... Dude your gonna get dumped.

    winnkeywinnkey13 päivää sitten
  • Everyone give some extra love for RSLASH

    Anwen WolfeAnwen Wolfe13 päivää sitten
  • Where was the story about the cops being called!? Am I going insane or was there no story about the cops being called like the title of this video says!?

    Anglerdude13Anglerdude1313 päivää sitten
  • The second story: There is a limit a Manager or Supervisor can do when working from home, compared what they could do at the office. OP's girlfriend might not do much, compared to what OP does, but that may easily be because of the lockdown. She most likely has her daily duties cut back due to the fact she isn't physically at the office. Most of a manager's duties is managing the work of everyone under them and as she can't physically be in the same room as her subordinates she can't manage them the way she did before COVID.

    Neil PriceNeil Price13 päivää sitten
  • Using treats and not giving them to the pets 100% of the time is actually a training method, that keeps their expectations low. It tells them if they do what they're told they MIGHT get something, which gets them to always listen, but not throw a fit the one time you have no treat.

    DokuujinDokuujin13 päivää sitten
  • About the second story: I personally work as a taxi driver, thats 13 hours of work daily for the same as a store clerk earns in 6 hours. I don't ask what my gf does at her job, not because im not interested, but because this jealousy will appear. At home she is really bad at doing anything house related, she is basically really lazy. But if I went the road of "you earn more so you shouldnt be so lazy", the only thing I would do is destroy the relationship.

    Andreas MonstadAndreas Monstad13 päivää sitten
  • Petition for rslash's wife to make a guest appearance?

    murakumo65murakumo6513 päivää sitten
  • Wait, not giving treats everytime is counted as being mean? And how would the gf get the cat to move? Its completely normal even. Though, if you have 2+ cats, you lose that option.

    Andreas MonstadAndreas Monstad13 päivää sitten
  • For the first one, the person be training the cat good, though I think rslash knows they okay just making a joke. I remember learning about pigeons pressing buttons as part of an experiment, it was training them and rewarding them with food. The studies found that having inconsistent rewarding was the best way to get the pigeons to always press the button. If they alway for the reward they would stop pressing the button and only do it if they wanted to. Something like that at least.

    Fried PotatoFried Potato13 päivää sitten
  • To the first story with the cat...I do this as well as my cat will claw at closed doors destroying the carpet in the process. It’s either go up stairs to the second floor landing and spray him with water or sometimes shake the bag so he comes downstairs. I usually give him treats if he hadn’t got any previous before/after dinner as his stomach is sensitive and could puke if eating to much.

    Rokeke ShayRokeke Shay13 päivää sitten
  • My mom takes care of old people whips there ass carry’s them around literally is the only one who does anything and she makes less than a person who works a taco bell

    Lil DevilLil Devil13 päivää sitten
  • Been awhile since I saw five out of five, I really wasn't expecting that!

    Mister DipstickMister Dipstick14 päivää sitten
  • I don’t why teachers get so mad about their paychecks, first they know how much money they are going to get in the first place. Also they gets load of vacation time, and sick time

    Shoe BusinessShoe Business14 päivää sitten
  • And thats the difference between a boyfriend and girlfriend and a husband and wife

    Yandere catYandere cat14 päivää sitten
  • About the funeral story To top it off they made her attend her sisters funeral by FUCKING VIDEOCALL, HOW FUCKING CRAPPY IS THAT???!!!

    Dakota AddisonDakota Addison14 päivää sitten
  • Props to your Rslash for being a good older brother, Also keep up the good work

    FBIFBI14 päivää sitten
  • As for the first person: Theyre practicing something called classical conditioning and it’s a form of training, and rewarding the cat with a treat EVERY time would actually ruin the purpose, because then as soon as you did it without giving the cat a treat then the likely hood of the cat forming an extinction with this behavior increases. Also too many treats can lead to weight problems :)

    MondiMondi14 päivää sitten
  • First story OP isn’t lying, she’s training her cat and she doesn’t even know it. She’s actually making the treats last longer. The cat is either rewarded with a treat or affection, he loses nothing.

    someonebored 0100someonebored 010014 päivää sitten
  • Never heard your wife’s name before and when you said Nicole I was thinking of my girlfriend and I was like “wait a minute”

    AnonymousAnonymous14 päivää sitten
  • I think the brother in the last story is probably more of a butthole than you think. Accusing OP’s wife of cheating simply for wearing make up is extremely misogynistic. He made the assumption that the only reason a married women would like the idea of putting on makeup or changing the way she looks is to make herself potentially prettier for cheating partners. Anyone that thinks this way fails to comprehend that women can do things for themselves simply because they want to. While the brother may have had good intentions, I’m willing to bet the intention itself came from a misogynistic preconception. Imagine if op called his brothers wife and said he thinks his brother is cheating cause he started working out lmao

    Joseph fowlerJoseph fowler14 päivää sitten
  • Regarding the "Am I the AH for telling my parents they only have 1 daughter and she's 6-feet under" 0.5/5 YTA but only because of how harshly you worded that, it did need to be said because that's exactly what the parents did but OP could have said it a bit more curtly. In response to the parents saying "we had to focus on our other child you should just suck it up" I would respond with the same "You chose 1 child over both children so suck it up."

    Feral_SinsFeral_Sins14 päivää sitten
  • Lmao that cat story is so ridiculous. I can't imagine anyone actually getting mad over it

    -ruubi--ruubi-14 päivää sitten
  • The last story, hes not an ass for defending his wife but the namecalling seems unjustified seeing as he knows his brother doesnt know when to drop it and was only tryna look out for him

    Proxy L0rdProxy L0rd14 päivää sitten
    • @Josh Muldowney yea thats how i saw it, bit overkill for someone whos socially awkward whos just tryna help.

      Proxy L0rdProxy L0rd13 päivää sitten
    • I get that and the amount of names was a bit extreme

      Josh MuldowneyJosh Muldowney14 päivää sitten
  • OP, give your girlfriend a kitty treat and tell her to shut the F up. It ain't her cat, so back off and shut up. Assuming you don't live together, remind her that if she doesn't like what you do in YOUR place, remind her that she is free to leave, where the door is and how to use it if she has forgotten. If you do live together all I can say is ........ you picked her!

    cimogmcimogm14 päivää sitten
  • Sooooo, his wife does work around the house, and is less tired and more cheerful generally and still brings in a decent wage and he’s... mad about it? Seriously, OP. Get yourself a better job and hate the machine, not your SO

    Goku x SephirothGoku x Sephiroth14 päivää sitten
  • Not the butthole about the cat. Cats don't get disappointed like we do. They also get annoyed at us, walk away for like five minutes and come back for cuddles. I do this to my cat when she runs out of the house and we are leaving for several hours because I would rather know that she's safe with food and water, even though she has caught food to eat several times. The one time I didn't make sure, she was gone for 3 days and I thought she was dead, but turns out she was staying at the cat daddy's place. He does catch spay release and her ear isn't clipped because.. she's mine so I'm sure he let her go after that and she came home, but I was freaking out, looking for her several times a day around the apartment complex.

    Janae AndreJanae Andre14 päivää sitten
  • Unpopular opinion: The cat treat stuff is NOT abuse...

    Marcus Vinicius Sousa de JesusMarcus Vinicius Sousa de Jesus14 päivää sitten
  • Yes r slash your job is so hard

    Austin AitchisonAustin Aitchison14 päivää sitten
  • *R/ talking about his personal life* Me: "HE WORKS HARD!"

    Chill DogsChill Dogs14 päivää sitten
  • Wait where is the veggie theft

    Alex OstapykAlex Ostapyk14 päivää sitten
  • Bro you work so hard

    Giannis MpeliasGiannis Mpelias14 päivää sitten
  • For the first OP: I have a strict rule: no cats in my room when I'm asleep. (I wish I could cuddle them, but one in particular has some tendencies that mean none of us can trust him around us without keeping an eye on him.) I also have a gap under my bed that's too narrow for me to fit under and extends too far to reach to the other side of. It's also one of my cats' favorite spots. So what I do at night to get her out is either I use the magical red dot to lure her out and play with her for a few minutes outside of my room before closing the door, or I lure her out with treats, she gets a minute of snuggles *and* a treat, and I drop her off at a different spot I know she loves before retreating to my room and closing the door. It takes a grand total of five minutes more, tops. It's not that big of a deal.

    Tamar AdelsohnTamar Adelsohn14 päivää sitten
  • The girl making more money is more understandable than rSlash because these two are on the same career path unlike you doing podcasts and her being a teacher. It would be like if she also did podcasts but only had to record 1 podcast a week

    First Name Last NameFirst Name Last Name14 päivää sitten
  • Sounds like rSlash used the title for the wrong video~

    CinnyCinny14 päivää sitten
  • 1st story confuses me, i don’t see the problem

    ric _269ric _26914 päivää sitten
  • I mean... the cat obviously wants attention OR the treat and it's come to associate the bag with "one of these, both are good", otherwise it WOULDN'T KEEP COMING BACK. So shes not lying. Either way the cat gets a treat: attention or food. The idea that a cat ONLY comes to someone for the treat MAY be rooted in the judgey idea that "cats are selfish and only care for people if they feed and protect them" (which I'm sure some cats do -and it wouldn't be very sensible to stay with someone who was starving you out of loyalty so idk why that's always brought up) but it's unfair to assume that of an entire species, and is definitely not true as a whole. Cats are complex, loving beasts with a very different mental biology to humans or even other animals. Heck they're one of few animals that domesticated THEMSELVES. People just judge them because they're... not dogs, I guess? Because they scratch (so do dogs, birds, or most other species kept as pets, but go off I guess)?

    ScarabDScarabD14 päivää sitten
  • rSLASH sounds like you need to teach your wife how to edit

    w7100w710014 päivää sitten
  • Don't you earn money from views over time on previous videos? Surely your previous videos don't suddenly stop earning money when one day passes... I understand it's probably less than a new video, but you have a LOT of old videos that probably collectively make a good amount of views even after their initial release. I'm not a youtuber, but this was my understanding of how it worked and how I've heard it from other youtubers. So, not sure why you described it the way you did... Maybe you are just trying to make a point, but comes across as somewhat manipulative..

    BleepBloop AbbieBleepBloop Abbie14 päivää sitten
  • Am I the a hole for abandoning a friend of the family? My father passed away in the summer of 2019 . He was my son's best friend my son is now 9. He did everything with my son hunting fishing 4 wheelers dirt bikes guns. My dad had a very close friend who I knew growing up hes in his mid fifties and I will call him Bob. my son got close to Bob as well. When my dad was sick and dying, Bob helped out a lot. He had recently lost his mother. And I was currently dealing with similar situations with my family. He promised my dad on his deathbed here take care of my son and do grandpa stuff with him. At 1st it was great my son had a surrogate grandpa. How ever after awhile It became more about me and less about my son when it was supposed to be all about my son. Started making me feel uncomfortable. Bob Is very kind and generous but wouldn't accept no to his help . Started a telling me that i was the light of his life and not leave him andHe cleaned himself up stopped drinking cleaned up his house. Glad hes doing good for himself but he seemed to be doing it for me started to scare me . I am happily married. And my husband is my everything. He made plans with my son and I told him I was excited to spend the day alone with my daughter. He tried manipulating me into hanging out too and got mad at me when I said he had plans with my son not me. Bob bought a car seat. Built an ice rink put hours into it. got fruits and snacks for the kids. Came to pick up my son and expected me to go too even though I already told him I wasn't going. He said we had plans that he did all this for me to have fun in the do stuff over there. I told my husband to my therapist everything because i am getting scared have seemed like he was getting rather obsessed with me. I trusted him. He kept crossing my boundaries and not listening to me. Before things got weird there was a bad storm and we lost power my kids and i ended up sleeping over at his place for the night The next morning showed me something in his Room, And suddenly started changing without any warning. I quickly turned away went out the Room and apologised said I did not realise his changing . He said he didn't care I replied that well I do. That's set off some flags I figured he was justNot aware that that's not appropriate. He spent a lot of his life alone to care for his mother so I thought he just didn't know how you should behave around a married woman. His house lost power but mine came back on. He drove me and kids back to my house asked if he could take a shower , Is always being so nice generous with my family , Out of respect and courtesy yeah I let him use my shower. But when he came out he was wearing pants they kept on falling down. he let them keep on falling down. I told him that he needed to get a belt or suspenders. Told him I don't wanna see his Johnson. He acted very Oblivious to his pants falling down. I found it disturbing, but I I figured just didn't see me as a woman. Like I was his buddy Like how my dad was his Buddy. my gut started telling me something wasn't right. I told my husband about it. I talk to Bob Clearly stated some boundaries in a started distancing myself a bit. He had been through a lot was depressed I still checked on him still cared about him my son really cares about him to. What is a connection to the grandpa that he lost. Bob started following my boundaries and after a while he started acting appropriately he was learning when I told him I wasn't OK with it. But then he got on to Facebook and started calling me almost everyday in getting upset with me for forgetting to message him. He get really sensitive and emotional, Start twisting and turning my words against me. started saying that I talked with him and said things that never happened at all. . He got mad at me because I forgot to respond to a message on Facebook. Out of nowhere He sent me this "Thanks for hang up or not talking to me again very much it probably better if we don't talk again for a while thanks for nothing again one sided friends dosen't. " I called him asking what's wrong again. And worried about his mental health hes been very depressed and refuses to seek help. Keep telling him The he should speak with a professional i am not a therapist. Suddenly he starts telling me that I need to think about what it is I say to him that I hurt his feelings he then said that in that last summer I told him I regretted marrying my husband in that I wanted to be with him. My husband is my everything I would never say anything even remotely close to any of that to anybody. i told Bob that he needs help hes having delusions . He told me thatHe was not dreaming that that I may have forgotten . Bob called me a liar and said i mind fucked him. All this gave me an anxiety attackHave narcolepsy cataplexy and cannot handle conflict. Stressing that caused My body to collapse. He Is scaring me had enough of his mood swings. I told him that That what he is saying is not true and if he really believes thatThen that's a deal breaker we can't be friends anymore. He then said well why don't we hold off you think about the things that you say to me and how you hurt my feelings, You don't appreciate what I do for you, Right now we are to angry I can't convince you that you said it and you won't convince me that you didn't. At this point I am practically dumbfounded at everything that he said. He told me to think it over having open mind and if I care anything about this friendship at all then give him a call in a few days. This was the final straw for me and I've decided to cut all ties with him. I've been afraid to do so because I'm afraid hurt himself but now I am afraid that I might be in danger. I used to respect And Care about his well being,Out of of respect for the promise he made my dad and How closely he become with my son. My husband agrees 100% with my decision any blocked everything for me. I am scared what do I tell my son. What if He comes to my house or follows me at work. What if he kills himself. used to trust this man and confide in him Back when my dad was dying my external family was giving me trouble. No idea where he got these ideas from I Don't like physical contact so I keep a distance from practically everyone but my husband kids. He get upset with me for pe Being distant. And then tell me that I was the one putting the moves on him. He's old , Unattractive, And has big emotional mood swings. I hurt his feelings when I kept on talking about how much I love my husband and missed my husband and wanted to be home to my husband. After absolutely everything that happened I told my husband right away. He wasn't worried or see him as a threat until it started to Severely stress me out and put me into a depression. Out of respect of what he was to my son we best expressed clear boundaries and I distance myself more. But after what just happened today both my husband and I decided that it's best that we have nothing to do with him. Scared of what happens next. I am sorry about this being so long. If You have any advice or insight it would be greatly appreciated thank you videos for your time.

    Wimsy logicWimsy logic14 päivää sitten
    • Wow NTA take this to Reddit you did nothing wrong

      Smart FrogSmart Frog14 päivää sitten
  • Second story guy was definitely the asshole. His girlfriend is right, they hired her for her knowledge and she's being paid for that knowledge. If he wants that level of work/life balance she has he can either get a lower paying job or learn a higher value skill. Tearing other people down doesn't build you up, and he needs to learn that before she leaves him.

    WafflesWaffles14 päivää sitten
  • I have a fat little cat that people would look at and instantly assume is food motivated. Nope. If she had to choose between a cat treat or me picking her up and giving her a little snuggle she'd take the snuggle 11/10 times. But still, OP needs to be careful that they don't incur the wrath of r/petthedamncat lol.

    WafflesWaffles14 päivää sitten
  • Wow, OP is jealous that a woman makes more then he does. Wow

    Elizabeth G Enat-HungElizabeth G Enat-Hung14 päivää sitten
  • I always smile when I hear "welcome to r slash [something that he reads]"

    tammy benoisttammy benoist14 päivää sitten
  • waiting for the "my wife cheated with a coworker " title

    Paul Rispress IIPaul Rispress II14 päivää sitten
  • 9:12 hmm. In terms of how OP described him, that brother sounds autistic. How would I know? I am.

    IDCGamingIDCGaming14 päivää sitten
  • Third story is not the asshole. I have both experienced a siblings death from illness as well as witnessed another family having to deal with a dying (she survived) daughter. Neither of the parents involved ever abandoned me or the other kids to “care for” the other child. Yes there were times where the focus was on the other child but not once were we abandoned. (The dad in the other family did walk out but I don’t know the full story). When you have a sick child you work harder to be a family. Parents are supposed to make sure all children are shown love. They could have grieved together but her parents burnt that bridge.

    shastapurpledaisyshastapurpledaisy14 päivää sitten
  • what we know about rSlash's wife (please don't bully me, i am not a stalker and i only post comments for meaningless internet points and people clicking the like button) she's asian she cooks spicy food she's a university teacher her alias in this video is nicole tell me other things i missed

    Wham_ sandwitchWham_ sandwitch14 päivää sitten
  • Rslash I love ya and get where you’re coming from but your FIworld videos are like a cheap used car each.

    Jax AnonJax Anon15 päivää sitten
  • watching with cat casually

    Øcean MoonØcean Moon15 päivää sitten