r/AmITheA**hole In today's episode, OP allows his nephew and his family to stay with him in his house after they lose their jobs due to 2020 craziness. What does the teenage nephew do to show his gratitude? Immediately set OP's bathroom on fire for a TikTok! OP did the next logical thing: he kicked his nephew and his family out of his house because -- you know -- setting a person's house on fire is kind of a deal breaker.
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idk about you, but if someone set my house on fire i'd see that as a deal breaker
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Same
“What do you mean burning down someone’s home for a prank is bad lolskekdj”
Yeah...
If you let your kids on tiktok they should be taken from you, end of story. I don't care how many times it happens, no one seems to realize that tiktok loves spreading harmful and dangerous acts among it's children userbase, almost as if it's acting like it's putting darwinism back in social darwinism.
NO, U are good, son has the title of being a total A-hole, If he is of age, I'd give him the boot. he is pisst you set boundaries and he has shown he has NO respect for them. I'd let him do some jail time.
Don´t judge me if it may sound weird... but whats the definition of OP? As a "english is not my first language"-kind of person i don´t really understand it...
That set sounds expensive could be a felony he deserves it
if the Tic Tok was actually posted I could already imagine the layout and format (Nephew draws shape and sets it on fire with overused music in the background) (Text after skipping to another scene of outside the house) 😳 *Set the house on fire* 😳 Video ends revealing a black screen and their tag.
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This is why tiktok will destroy humanity faster than covid
Please I need help. And advice . My father passed away in the summer of 2019 . He was my son's best friend my son is now 9. He did everything with my son hunting fishing 4 wheelers dirt bikes guns. My dad had a very close friend who I knew growing up hes in his mid fifties and I will call him Bob. Bob was a close family friend of my dad'sI grew up knowing him. He did stuff with my dad well my dad had my son so my son got close to Bob as well. When my dad was sick and dying, Bob helped out a lot. He had recently lost his mother Whom he cared for and Lost all ties to his family to greed. And I was currently dealing with similar situations with my family. He promised my dad on his deathbed here take care of my son and do grandpa stuff with him so that way my son could keep on doing those things. At 1st it was great my son had a surrogate grandpa. How ever after awhile He started wanting to spend more time with me. It became more about me and less about my son when it was supposed to be all about my son. Start making me feel uncomfortable. Bob Is very kind in generous but wouldn't accept no it make me feel guilty not accepting his help . Start a telling me that i was the light of his life and not leave him andHe cleaned himself up stopped drinking cleaned up his house. Glad hes doing good for himself but he seemed to be doing it for me started to scare me . I am happily married. And my husband is my everything. Bob is a friend of my dad's who I cared about because of association what hes done for me and my family and how close he had become to my son I am also not a very social person couple steps above being a hermit. He made plans with my son and I told him I was excited to spend the day alone with my daughter. He tried manipulating me into hanging out too and got mad at me when I said he had plans of my son not me. That I had planned to spend quality time with my daughter. Bob went out for a car seat. Built an ice rink put hours into it when out got fruits and snacks for the kids. Came to pick up my son and expected me to go to even though I already told him I wasn't going. He said we had plans that he did all this for me to have fun in the do stuff over there. I told my husband to my therapist everything because i am getting scared have seemed like he was getting rather obsessed with me. I trusted him. He kept crossing my boundaries and not listening to me. Before things got weird there was a bad storm and we lost power my kids and i ended up sleeping over at his place for the night The next morning showed me something in his Room, And suddenly started changing without any warning. I quickly turned away went out the Room and apologised said I did not realise his changing . He said he didn't care I replied that well I do. That's set off some flags I figured he was justNot aware that that's not appropriate. He spent a lot of his life alone to care for his mother so I thought he just didn't know how you should behave around a married woman. His house lost power but mine came back on. He drove me and kids back to my house asked if he could take a shower , Is always being so nice generous with my family , Out of respect and courtesy yeah I let him use my shower. But when he came out he was wearing pants they kept on falling down. he let them keep on falling down. I told him that he needed to get a belt or suspenders. Told him I don't wanna see his Johnson. He acted very Oblivious to his pants falling down. I found it disturbing, but I I figured just didn't see me as a woman. Like I was his buddy Like how my dad was his Buddy. my gut started telling me something wasn't right. I told my husband about it. I talk to Bob Clearly stated some boundaries in a started distancing myself a bit. He had been through a lot was depressed I still checked on him still cared about him my son really cares about him to. What is a connection to the grandpa that he lost. Bob started following my boundaries and after a while he started acting appropriately he was learning when I told him I wasn't OK with it. But then he got on to Facebook and started calling me almost everyday in getting upset with me for forgetting to message him. He get really sensitive and emotional, Start twisting and turning my words against me. started saying that I talked with him and said things that never happened at all. . He got mad at me because I forgot to respond to a message on Facebook. Out of nowhere He sent me this "Thanks for hang up or not talking to me again very much it probably better if we don't talk again for a while thanks for nothing again one sided friends dosen't. " I called him asking what's wrong again. And worried about his mental health hes been very depressed and refuses to seek help. Keep telling him The he should speak with a professional i am not a therapist. Suddenly he starts telling me that I need to think about what it is I say to him that I hurt his feelings he then said that in that last summer I told him I regretted marrying my husband in that I wanted to be with him. My husband is my everything I would never say anything even remotely close to any of that to anybody. i told Bob that he needs help hes having delusions . He told me thatHe was not dreaming that that I may have forgotten . Bob called me a liar and said i mind fucked him. All this gave me an anxiety attackHave narcolepsy cataplexy and cannot handle conflict. Stressing that caused My body to collapse. He Is scaring me had enough of his mood swings. I told him that That what he is saying is not true and if he really believes thatThen that's a deal breaker we can't be friends anymore. He then said well why don't we hold off you think about the things that you say to me and how you hurt my feelings, You don't appreciate what I do for you, Right now we are to angry I can't convince you that you said it and you won't convince me that you didn't. At this point I am practically dumbfounded at everything that he said. He told me to think it over having open mind and if I care anything about this friendship at all then give him a call in a few days. This was the final straw for me and I've decided to cut all ties with him. I've been afraid to do so because I'm afraid hurt himself but now I am afraid that I might be in danger. I used to respect And Care about his well being,Out of of respect for the promise he made my dad and How closely he become with my son. My husband agrees 100% with my decision any blocked everything for me. I am scared what do I tell my son. What if He comes to my house or follows me at work. What if he kills himself. used to trust this man and confide in him Back when my dad was dying my external family was giving me trouble. No idea where he got these ideas from I Don't like physical contact so I keep a distance from practically everyone but my husband kids. He get upset with me for pe Being distant. And then tell me that I was the one putting the moves on him. He's an old , Unattractive, And whiney like a stertypical annoying woman. I hurt his feelings when I keep on talking about how much I love my husband and missed my husband and wanted to be home to my husband. After absolutely everything that happened I told my husband right away. He wasn't worried or see him as a threat until it started to Severely stress me out and put me into a depression. The aide of respect as the what he was to my son we best expressed clear boundaries and I distance myself more. But after what just happened today both my husband and I decided that it's best that we have nothing to do with him. Scared of what happens next. I am sorry about this being so long. If You have any advice or insight it would be greatly appreciated thank you For your videos thank you for your time.
And that kids is why you dont plagiarize
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Can we just appreciate the mom the stepson? In many of these, the mom takes the kid's side. But she stood by her husband the whole time. She gets a round of applause.
i once posted it in r/aita but it was removed for violating the rules of rule #7 (no violence) so i wanted to post it here so i can ask for your opinion I am an introvert so i was playing golf and my dad introduced me to his friend from his master's degree i was too nervous to say hi so I stayed silent later my dad said i was embarrassing him in front of his friend and said if i do this he'll hurt me Should have said hi Was i the asshole?
I refuse to use the term "influencer"
Send his ass to jail
People that post there are hella insecure
You sound tired are you ok?
The fire story. A 15 year old kid tries a thing he saw on the internet, something we all have done, albeit his involves fire. An accident happens and nobody gets hurt. You may be angry but because a kid made a stupid mistake does that justify kicking the whole family out? Target the kid then he can stay at a friend's or dont kick anyone out and find a much better way to deal with the problem at hand Make sure the kid gets a punishment that makes him KNOW he shouldn't do such reckless things now OP has no control over that but they can demand the parents take action or he gets kicked out. I give OP from fire 1 butthole simply on the grounds that; while you may have been the victim who's house was set on fire, you still need to realize it's a teenaged boy doing something stupid and learning from it. But also IMO the parents should be the ones providing the home. But that's just my 2 cents
op your what your nephew did is arson
The father in the first story should just tell everyone, who is trying to shame him into withdrawing his police report, that his daughter has found a liking in this persons car, jewelry, PS5, expansive laptop, whatever... and then start to remove said item from their property. _"You've just confirmed that taking something from a relative in case you like it is perfectly fine, so why all the fuzz now? You are no hypocrite, are you!?"_ And the story about the bathroom lit on fire? No, that was not an _accident,_ that was the result of, to say it with the Punisher, terminal stupidity. That fired was started by a 15 year old who actually should have known better and who knows what this little moron will do next, because there is a tiktok trend. Burn your cat alive? Put an immersion heater into your saltwater aquarium, killing fish worth thousands? Looting your liquor cabinet and vomiting all over your place? Taking your jewelry?
So Dale and his wife won't put the baby stuff boxes in the storage 'cause they might get ruined, but it's ok to put an 15 year old girl to live in there?!? 🤯
In my opinion burning down houses isn't really that good, and I think that it's rude to do such a thing
3:38 I mean you shouldn't expect much from tik tokkers
Anybody notice hes reusing thumbnails. Honestly dont care just confused me
I’m convinced that TikTok is used by the Chinese to poison American’s children
I just realized that you slightly edit the stories to make them easier to listen to. I really appreciate the work you put in to do that. It's one thing to read aloud for twenty minutes, it's another thing entirely to do so while needing to edit the scripts. I'll sub for that.
I’d give that stepson 5/5. His family 5/5 too. My mother has almost died multiple times throughout my life. She told me that I would be the one to get her wedding ring, as well as other pieces of her jewelry. If anyone, anyone at all, tried to take away my mother’s wedding ring or any of the piece of jewelry that she were to give to me in the event of her death, I would be pressing as many charges as possible onto them. Family be damned. Edit: grammar.
todays my bday
why concieve when you can't afford a home...
Friends is one of the most popular and well known sitcoms in history. She actually expected no one would recognize the main location from the picture?
#1 OP. No, you arent the asshole for pressing charges. The stepson is a c u next tuesday. #2 OP. You own the house, they screwed up. You arent an asshole. #3 OP. You aren't an asshole for keeping him out of your life. I'm actually building up the courage to kick out my dads father out of my life. #4 OP. F**k Dale and his wife. You are no asshole. Screw that. #5 OP. Hahahahahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 0 outta 5 for you hahaha
“Theyre gonna be homeless” They almost made OP homeless too
A scammer influencer posting the wrong thing and outing herself in the process is just hilarious!
Not going to post this to Reddit so feel free to use it: Many moons ago, I worked in the legal wagering service for Dog and Horse tracks. There was a TV show on named something overly dramatic (The Crusaders or something like it), doing a segment on a fire that broke out in the kennel/stables. The TV people were going on and droning on about how many animals were killed - which was none. None were injured. But there were three of my friends killed in the fire, three more were scarred and maimed for life. They slept in the kennel/stable for just this. If a fire broke out, their job was to make sure they saved every animal that could be saved, was. And they did their job. Most kennels/stables did this for legal wagering sites. After all, they were very valuable. A stud of good blood lines could earn over 5 million dollars a year just "doing what comes naturally". We normally don't talk about it the level of protection. The dogs got meat bones and not just scraps, there was about 5 to 6 pounds of meat on them. Greyhounds are lazy couch potatoes until they start running. Horses have to be watched closely, because if they exert them selves to much, they damage their lungs (That's why in the program, you'll see some horses get Lasix - the same drug I take for my heart failure). Of the three that died, they were mostly old men - people that knew how to treat their charges well, never use force or beatings. The other three were learning from the "old heads" - like blowing into a horses nose, to drop their heads and mouth chewing. Just being good to the dogs was usually enough - they responded. Put short, people like to say we abuse animals in racing. Nothing could be further from the truth. There's not just huge amounts of money invested, but most of us like them for themselves, not what they do for us. What burned me up was this TV show put on a big production about how at risk the animals were, and how it was a miracle they weren't hurt, and how it was just blind luck - not true. They never said one word about my friends that were killed, or the friends injured. Two were very loving woman that would make you drop to your knees beautiful - and they still are, but with all the scarring they don't go out into public any more. The third one, a guy, took his own life because the pain from the scarring was simply too much to live with.
Ok I just wanted to ask about the story that had the single mom with children Kim and Dale (7:35). Why is it just Kim who is the apple of OP’s eye. Did Dale not go through the same things or was he a bad kid? I’m just confused on that part.
I didnt click on this video because i thought it was an old one because of the thumbnail
I hope he got his jewelry back..🥺
1st story , Definitely press charges! How the hell does the stepson get only 4/5???? He stole a family heirloom from a little girl, refused to return it & got the whole family to defend him after being told not to even mention the item again!! 2nd story, He may not have intended the fire to get out of control but you certainly can't call it an accident since he set the fire on purpose! At the very least, the brat would have to be supervised 100% of the time (I'd kick them out) and would have them pay for the damages as a punishment for allowing their brat to set a house on fire!! 4th story, if your son will allow his wife to take over the sister's room, he'll allow her to take over the house. Everyone is better off with them out of the home.
story 1: Boundaries were set, boundaries were broken. You are NTA! Theft is theft and you gave multiple opportunities for him to return the jewelry set. Trying to defend such a theft is despicable and the stepson's entire family should be called out for trying to defend him from the consequences. The fiancée wanted it? fine. Was it the fiancée that removed it from the closet? no. Was the stepson the one who removed it from the closet? yes. does that make the stepson any less responsible for the theft? no, if anything it makes him solely responsible. story 2: Legit, NTA. What if you were in the house and the fire dept. didn't get there in time? The fact that the nephew apparently hasn't been taught fire safety is frankly terrifying. story 3: No. Just no. Like, insert all of the past present and future "no" memes levels of no. He made his bed and should be made to lie in it. He hurt your mother, broke her trust, broke YOUR trust and expects to be welcomes into your life with open arms? NTA story 4: i don't think i need to say anything here. NTA story 5: i mean...she told you to leave it alone. you did what she said. like in the earlier story, she made her bed, now she needs to lie in it. NTA.
Excuse me wtf is that tittle
The estranged father is correct. Those kids deserve their grandparents. Its to bad that father was derelict in being a father and in no way deserves admission into the lives of his children’s kids.
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In all honesty, I might have to disagree with the Tiktok story. Even the best of parents can’t prepare for every contingency of stupidity from their teenage child. If OP wishes to ask them to leave, that is definitely her prerogative, but I don’t know if it would be necessary to assign so many jerk points. Although I can definitely agree, that teenager will definitely need to be disciplined so that they will never forget the folly of their ways in this incident.
So this weekend I had the lovely chance of giving my opinion on my best friends "Am I the A--hole?" situation. So. Some background. She had a friend whom she thought she was getting along with really well. He was even flirting too like 2 months ago. A month after he had been flirting with my friend the dude decides to get married, after constantly dodging the question of what his relationship was with a certain girl. Just telling that "it's complicated, I'll tell you when I'm sure." Previously she had made a gift for him herself. This gift had been stowed away behind a curtain, it was full of cobwebs and when my friend would like it back he told her that he didn't want to give it back because it was a sign of their friendship. Well... Long story short, my friend got her gift back and asked me if she had overreacted. In my opinion, if your friendship isn't worth more than being hidden behind a curtain, being paid no mind and full of cobwebs to the point where they won't even tell you about big events in their life - no. The item she had made meant a lot to her too, which is why she wanted it back. She had spend hours pouring her heart into it.
What a schocker a dumd trend from a trash platform causing dmg.
Is rslash running out of stock images
Tik tok stories like these make me actually want to support banning the app. I remember another tik tok challenge story where you break something of someone's and record their reaction and some douche actually did it to their autistic sibling. Seriously why the heck are people stupid enough to do these things?
First story, being family does not mean they have a get out of jail free card. I would have done the same even with my closest family.
that story about the father who wanted to be a grandparent just had me imagine my father on the phone asking for forgiveness. if i see someone in a story as having my father's face then there is 0 way they're a good person at all
Did the father ever tell the son that the jewellery was a gift to his daughter from his dead wife?
I don’t know about the tiktok one. What happened before that or was this the only remarkable event till that point? How neglegent are the brother and his wife? There are more things i can ask but you could at least give them a warning before moving them out.
SPOILER!! ... "OP, you're NOT the butthole" x3
Fourth story while her son and his wife crossed a line it sounds like she has always played favorites with her daughter.
That third story is definitely fake it doesn't even make sense how he wrote it..
I wouldn’t kick my family out if my nephew set the bathroom on fire - it was stupid and childish and dangerous, but it was also a MISTAKE! Kids make mistakes and do stupid stuff, you educate them and forgive them. From the sound of the story, OP’s brother and his wife apologized for it and didn’t act like buttholes, so why would I kick them out? Unless there is something OP is not saying, it feels like a harsh response... and seems like the fire was a convenient excuse to get rid of her family - maybe they had worn out their welcome, or had irritated her numerous times before and this was her opportunity to get rid of them...?
Step son story, this one really hits too close to home. So my step brother took my late father's car. It was given to me in his will after he passed away. He was told under no circumstances was he to touch it, move it, or even sit in it. He said he understands and the car was to be stored and occasionally driven only by my mom with my permission as I knew she knew how to operate it. It was a manual vehicle and it had long gears. I would as it turned out would never be able to drive it because of said long gears. However, with one exception a small pedal modification. No big deal, but my douche bag of a step brother took it out of the storage place under false pretense and with it being outside of insurance as it wasn't insured since it wasn't being driven at the time got pulled over. However, not before he blew the engine because we drained all the fluids so it wouldn't sit with them. The car caught on fire and to this day I'm disappointed in this. I never even saw the car, and it wasn't about the car, but what was in it. My father left notes and things in there for me when I was to turn 18 which got burned up. Also my step brother is a horrible non-human being. Thought the whole ordeal was funny and disowned his father and got his sister to join in. They're spending their lives on the other side of the country in-debt into their eyeballs and practically slaves to their mother. I frankly dislike them both and they've done more than just that, but this sort of thing just sends me. Suffice it to say, no OP you're not the butt hole. In fact I hope the step son and the step daughter and law get a lot of time reflecting in incarceration and hopefully give back the jewelry. Though I'm doubtful they will. Fingers crossed for you OP. Hope you get the stuff back and screw your step child(ren). He/(they) go into the douche department by many miles!
In first story: Not the asshole. This is only a step above graverobbing.
15 year olds are idiots, just make him pay for it.
2nd story, wtf the child could have burned down your home and killed you. Bye 👋
First story, throw stepson in jail. Let his ass rot for a bit so he can learn how not to be a damn thief
Hold the hec up how the hec do you not have a house but have a phone to make TikToks
I don't think that your parents have to be in a relationship for another parent to see the child/children, now if one of the parents don't want a relationship with the kid then that's when they shouldn't see the kid or if the kid doesn't want to they shouldn't see the kid.
4:50 hey there’s a song for that
No way ! Father cheated on your mom and married the adiar women and now wants to rekindle with His kids 5 out of 5 butholes You don’t just get love You Earn it Being old doesn’t make you entitled to become a loving grandfather
That was so horrible ! To go through your things and take it !! He wants to gift something BUY IT BUM. This jewelry wasn’t just any jewelry the sentimental value isn’t even yours (dad) it’s for your daughter so I say fight for it until you get it back the amount of disrespect is Cruel don’t feel bad he should have known better Press charges get your Daughters jewelry back!
That nursery one was ridiculous. A newborn doesn’t need their own bedroom, a 15 year old does.
I disagree with you on the second story based on what we hear. It sounds like there was no problems before this, and the issue came when the 15 year old became an idiot. Look, I understand that it's a big deal with the damages, but you shouldn't be so harsh. It was the kid's decision, and as long as he gets punished severely then why kick them out? Though I suppose tearing him from his family because CPS won't let him stay with homeless people is punishment to fit the crime of being a dumbass, right?
First op is not a butthole at all. If the stepson was a child it.would be different. This guy is 21 he def knows what he's doinh
The TikTok story is another reason on why I dislike TikTok
There shouldn’t be ANY rules if someone moves in to help them. It’s called RESPECT. Just respect their property and rules aren’t necessary. No respect, no stay, no home. Tada!
1st post: Am I the *sshole for reporting theif? No, now moving on. 2nd Post: Somebody getting a spanken soon! 3rd Post: You cheat, you no longer have access to your children life. Common sense! 4th Post: Who said you can move in, AND move my other kid out again? Oh wait, NO ONE! 5th Post: Ever heard of plagiarism?
Hmmm, let me steal this don’t care why the jewelry is there. Wait your going to press charges it isn’t fair I should get it
Reusing an old rthumbnail?
jewelery story - i would give 0.5 but only for not telling full story to step-son. Maybe he would react differetly if he knew full story(he obviously because he would not wanted to ask his dauther). But its true that this could destroy well kept secret. Bathroom story - 1 point for kicking out people who have nowhere to go. It doesnt seem like brother and wife are a...holes just bit bad parents. Still it looked like they would punish their son for misbehavior and didnt try to defend him. Other stories - NTA and that influencer had it coming.
Why is it so hard for people to not just give in and be a complete push over for their family? Youre allowed to call someone a butthole and you dont have to side with destructive and abusive people. I HATE people who co sign bullshit and divide the whole fucking family because they are so unwilling to accept that their precious daughter husband whatever did something arong.
First story: no, you're not the butthole.
Why doesn't he just say cuss words
4:53 i think maybe dont commit a genocide ???
OP in the last story sounds like an awesome person. It's that influencer's fault for not listening to OP's warnings about clout chasing, and for not obviously noticing how obvious and recognizable Monica's apartment from Friends is. 🤣
Hector the dad's not the asshole the his in-laws are the assholes and his stepson is the asshole for taking that jewelry that his wife who had passed away which was his daughter's mother jewelry so yeah he should be pressing charges and get it get the jewelry back and I hope the son-in-law or his stepson goes to jail
Good God that story about the son and his pregnant wife moving back home and evicting the sister from her bedroom got me annoyed. What is wrong with people?! 😡
In my opinion you shouldnt have let them live in the house just because he used tik tok
Yep as they said. it was a accident the the kid got hairspray, then sprayed it on the mirror, then took his dads lighter and then accidentally lit the mirror on fire, yep it was unplanned just a accident. Well then it’s just a coincidence that they need to move out within the week right!
GTFO Dale. You were told No, and instead you went behind your mother's back.
That title makes me giddy
I rarely see 4.5/5 so rslash rlly went on a rampage today lol
1st story, wtf how was it an accident, that child started the fire 🤦♀️
Naw son the stepson and family get 100/5 buttholes if the family had gotten him to return it then he wouldn’t have to call the police in the first place.
I once saw a post about a dad right? So op said that his wife recently passed away to which I say rest in peace ma'am. But here's the thing, they have a 6 year old daughter and the mom would braid and do the daughters hair. So after the funeral the daughter asked the dad if he could braid her hair. He said no and to figure out on how to do it herself and if she couldn't he would like, give her a buzz cut. He said it was a different style haircut which he got wrong. So this man basically told his daughter who is experiencing a traumatic event that he would shave her hair rather than learning to braid her hair on youtube. He really was going to punish his 6 year old daughter for wanting a simple hair style because that brought find memories of her deceased mother.
That pregnant daughter in law..... imagine how entitled she would have been once the kid was born. She would have straight up been expecting the daughter to do free baby sitting. You just know it.
I feel so bad for the first one ...
why does a baby need a room on his own anyway? they cant even do much the first few months and everything they can do can be in the bedroom of the parents (im pretty sure of that). While a 1 year old not only needs her privacy but also space to live.
Whatever happened to basic and common sense privacy and respect? Never mind the theft of the jewelry, lies, attempted cover-up, and deception. Why would someone go rummaging around and opening up boxes in someone else's closet? It's not your closet, stay out. It's not your jewelry, don't touch it.
Do people not see the problem that there is an obvious (lack of) parenting issue? These people brought up a kid that made a consious decision to spray a flammable substance in the house and then ignite it for attention, and think that it's not a big deal.
Gj
For the first story, I'd have had the cops show up at the wedding.
teenager - phone = peace on earth. simple solution in my opinion
Who the hell thinks they will get away with kicking their sister/sister-in-law out of her room in her mother's house while they are temporarily staying there? After the first suggestion about it, I would have brought both the wife and son and sat them down; then explained: "While it is great she can help them out during this transition in their life they need to understand that they are temporary guests until they can get back on their feet. If they want to continue to be welcome guests they will stop trying to treat their sister as undeserving of the room she lives in. This is not your house. If I hear one more remark or hear that you are trying to influence her to spontaneously give up her room for you or your baby then you will leave that night. You are both grown adults, start acting like it and treat her with respect. Do I make myself clear?" Then you ask your daughter to come in and tell her that in no uncertain terms that if they bother her about her room again she needs to tell you right away, this is your house as much as mine while they are guests here. The arrogance of some people who think they are smarter or will get their way is crazy.
I'm sorry but the story about the tiktok/fire video you judged wrong, she is definitely being a butthole I understand that your probably pissed about the damage but you are making a family without jobs live on the street, If there was more and they were completely disrespectful fine but the kid made a stupid mistake