r/Relationships My Boyfriend Is Turning Me Into An Anime H***** Girl

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r/Relationships_Advice In today's story, OP is an Asian girl who's in a relationship with a white guy. OP's boyfriend starts buying anime cosplay outfits for OP to wear in the bedroom, and things just keep escalating. The thing that bothers OP so much is that she isn't even Japanese -- she's Taiwanese, so she finds it disrespectful that he's constantly trying to make her look like Japanese characters. What should she do?
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  • Taking a poll: Is it disrespectful to constantly ask your Taiwanese girlfriend to dress up as Japanese anime characters in the bedroom?

    rSlashrSlash24 päivää sitten
    • yes, her boyfriend is very weird

      wateriswetwateriswet24 päivää sitten
    • Yes

      Sarah AllenSarah Allen24 päivää sitten
    • yes. Stop fetishizing Asian women

      Bee kBee k24 päivää sitten
    • No

      piggy bruhpiggy bruh24 päivää sitten
    • Yes

      Angela BrownAngela Brown24 päivää sitten
  • We all know why you clicked this vid

    Hello Zuko HereHello Zuko HerePäivä sitten
  • Sexting can be platonic if the relationship is open, which their's obviously was not.

    Desth StrideDesth Stride6 päivää sitten
  • 2nd story. not judging at all but curious why you got married if having kids was important to you and not him. that stuff should be talked about before planning a wedding.

    Bernadette warburtonBernadette warburton7 päivää sitten
  • I read the sleep one a long time ago and there was updates where it turned out the date was wrong and she did miss remember when they had sex, however it came out that he did try to do it with her while she was out but she was too dry so he couldn't. I think she left him if I remember right.

    Vora_VixenVora_Vixen8 päivää sitten
  • Something about the last story feels very fake... I’m not sure what exactly it is, but it just doesn’t sit right with me.

    Alice BAlice B9 päivää sitten
  • Uhh telling someone not to fetishize you is not kink shaming

    RebeccaRebecca9 päivää sitten
  • That last one was the center story in a season of south park with cartman threatening to kill himself

    Tim LienauTim Lienau9 päivää sitten
  • First story: Asking that is no more disrespectful then asking to live out any other kink. Just because she´s asian doesn´t suddenly make it automaticly disrespectful. If she says no he obviously needs to accept that, just like your partner saying no to any other sexual practice. I don´t get how asking is disrespecting her at all. It´s her decision in the end. Immediately claiming disrespect is a good way to make your partner not open up to you.

    FormazFormaz9 päivää sitten
  • *pulls gun up to head after reading title and seeing thumbnail* -sigh- should I do this?

    Isabell KruppIsabell Krupp10 päivää sitten
  • "mess with the waifu and you will get the knifu"

    Jaskaran SinghJaskaran Singh11 päivää sitten
  • That medication that OP is taking is one I took. She needs to get off those pills. Unless she is suffering from bi polar or psychosis, she must stop taking it. The drug is awful.

    Charlie OscarCharlie Oscar11 päivää sitten
  • Dame Americans

    Mr. poke kirbMr. poke kirb12 päivää sitten
  • While I agree with what rslash was saying at the end, in some cases, that person is the only thing keeping them alive. For me, instead of treating that person like crap, I sacrificed everything for them because I didn't want to lose the safety of his house. At home, I could only think about, 'when's the next time I'm gonna get abused'. The signs are different when someone is truly suicidal and when they are faking it. When I did lose him, and no longer felt safe I was going to end it all. I had a plan within an hour of it happening, but someone realized I was really different and I was talked into going to the hospital for a 72 hour hold instead of being brought there in a police car. Be careful and learn the differences between a faker and someone who really needs you because they feel that there is no one else.

    Janae AndreJanae Andre14 päivää sitten
  • Me *looking at the title* Me : Choto mate, NANI?

    Nate RangeNate Range14 päivää sitten
  • If someone is harassing you you need to state "do not contact me again" every time they do if by text. If they do contact you again, you can show that they are not respecting your boundaries and need a legally enforceable boundary.

    Roscoe KaneRoscoe Kane15 päivää sitten
  • That cheating GF one, she is a manipulator and using her "depression and self harm" as a way to control the OP in that story, he needs to ditch her, seen that shit happen way too much in my life to good guys who just didn't know any better and were raised to put women ahead of themselves. It is not up to the OP to stop her harming herself, she clearly needs TRAINED and QUALIFIED help from a mental health expert, OP is not that.

    Ghost BearGhost Bear15 päivää sitten
  • oof

    JACKTHEREAPER102JACKTHEREAPER10216 päivää sitten
  • mess with the waifu get the knaifu wtf was that

    Junaid DobaJunaid Doba16 päivää sitten
  • Bruh, that weeb at the start makes me cringe

    Mark ChellMark Chell16 päivää sitten
  • Bro's before hoes

    Daniel McconnellDaniel Mcconnell16 päivää sitten
  • Seeing that everyone is looking at it from the perspective that he raped her, which is a big possibility, i will look at it from a different perspective: A friend of mine was diagnosed with a sleeping disorder and a lot of the times he had to take sleeping pills to help him sleep. The thing is that even tho those sleeping pills knocked him out, occasionally (around half of the time he needed to take them) he would just "wake up" and start doing "normal" things, going to the toilet, grabbing food from his fridge, randomly walk around the house, even have fully blown conversations with a person. This could last a few minutes or up to an hour, after which he would either already be in bed asleep or fall asleep wherever he was. Ofc he wouldn't remember anything that was going on and didn't believe it until he saw a few videos that his parents took when he was on one of this sleepwalks. Again, i'm not saying that happened to her, but if the medication has an effect to make her memory foggy, i wouldn't be surprised if it could also make her sleepwalk, or in her case, sleepsex, potentially because the lack of libido she's been having and the "guilt" that she feels that she's not having sex with her husband. Ofc, the husband should have noticed she wasn't herself, my buddy usually either had his eyes fully closed or barely open, but if this is in bed in the dark, i guess...but again, this is just a different perspective and the hidden cam should show evidence what is actually happening.

    NecroFlexNecroFlex16 päivää sitten
  • very racial related

    The Red BaconThe Red Bacon16 päivää sitten
  • For the anime story: it has nothing to do with her race, not for him I'm pretty sure, its just a thing he likes, its really not different from any kind of kink, if she is not into that then thats a whole different story, but it has nothing to do with her being taiwanese in any way

    Tired AlexTired Alex17 päivää sitten
  • Does it make you racist for being more attracted/ not attracted to type of ethnicity?

    Allister CameronAllister Cameron18 päivää sitten
  • When did this channel turn into an advice column?

    Kevin DavisKevin Davis18 päivää sitten
  • Title: anime hentai girl Thumbnail: Rem from re:zero who isn't even legal for half of it

    PirateShuxPirateShux18 päivää sitten
  • That poor girl, in the first story, is with a neckbeard! She needs to run! The fetishization is never going to end!

    Deanna JacksonDeanna Jackson18 päivää sitten
  • If your husband is having sex with your body which is in a deep sleep state induced by heavy medication, he’s ra***g you. There’s no consent given and he’s sick.

    Abijah AAbijah A18 päivää sitten
  • It’s disrespectful even if she really was Japanese! If I had a nickel for every story I’ve heard of a yt boy fetishizing a POC...🙄

    Abijah AAbijah A18 päivää sitten
  • 5 weeks pregnant story: People have suggested setting up cameras. That's definitely an idea, but I would suggest something to go along with that. There's devices that cis women can use to prevent vaginal rape. It's like a tampon on the outside (doesn't hurt the woman) but has barbs/spikes on the inside so when a man inserts himself....it doesn't go well for him. Some forms of these devices can only be removed with surgery. So the evidence from the cameras + the injury the man causes himself means there's basically no plausible deniability.

    Dirk StriderDirk Strider18 päivää sitten
  • Good video, but the thumbnail looks weird with nothing on one half and text on the other. . . . Seriously though, that was some great Rem cosplay.

    AlakaizerAlakaizer19 päivää sitten
  • The first ones not racist

    Randomdude 27Randomdude 2719 päivää sitten
  • Hmm the first story reminds me of a song, hmmm. The song isnt really appropriate, but it is a guy who is so obsessed with anime and hentai, they get so obsessed with it he loses his girlfriend who tried everything to make themself anime like. His lifestyle started to spiral out of control and went into drugs.

    Foxx PlayerFoxx Player19 päivää sitten
  • Okay, so, I was actually a little like the girl in the last story. Never cheated though and would never *ever* do either. I still haven't gotten a diagnosis, but I am very emotional and might (most probably) have bipolar disorder or borderline (because of covid I haven't been able to continue investigation so fml) and it wasn't really empty threats since I did attempt suicide a few times, just never as serious as the last 2 times. I have grown out of that, gone therapy for my self harm (extreamely decreased but stiill have urges. Have only done it twice in the span of soon 3 months and those were extreme situations I couldn't avoid, compared to almost daily, sorry for ranting) and I am seeking help, getting medications and taking it seriously. I have also gone from literally 0 friends to maybe 10-20 and they are all supportive and great. I mean, at least I can see my flaws and correct them. And I am still working on it. Hopefully this might encourage someone else. It isn't impossible, just super fucking hard and annoying. I'm not there yet, no where near even, but at least I'm trying. Good luck!

    LucasLucas19 päivää sitten
  • A lot of people use the depression card, and unfortunately, it irritates me everytime someone says they have depression. Mainly because they say it again, and again, and again non stop 😒

    - .K9. -- .K9. -19 päivää sitten
  • If he'll help his friend cheat then whose to say he values your relationship either? You can't trust that any time he goes out with Liam he's not cheating now that you know both of them consider this behavior acceptable.

    WafflesWaffles19 päivää sitten
  • Even if the "you're the only thing keeping me from suicide/self harm" thing was the honest truth, and not a manipulation tactic, that is not a responsibility anyone can bear. It's not a healthy relationship if that was the case... and the person in distress needs to get the help they need to be their own reason to keep going.

    dudepersonvidsdudepersonvids20 päivää sitten
  • Mess with the Waifu, get the knifeu. Genius.

    Lee GLee G20 päivää sitten
  • fucking up ethnicity of your girlfriend is kinda fucked but wanting todo some cosplay passionate hugging isn't wrong as long as the partner is fine with it I would just deliver the idea better

    Dr. Jingles7Dr. Jingles720 päivää sitten
  • rSlash knows the sacred saying "Mess with the waifu, get the knifu"

    AlterzAlterz20 päivää sitten
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    Max LucadoMax Lucado21 päivä sitten
  • Uh... it's not kink shaming, it's called asian fetishisation and it's racist af. Stop normalising racism against asians ffs.

    b̲r̲e̲a̲d̲b̲r̲e̲a̲d̲21 päivä sitten
  • Imagine the audacity to ask an Asian girl to be more kawaii because she "looks like a Japanese girl" and it would be cool if she acted like those Japanese anime cartoons......holy crap that is racist and also disrespectful.

    ArmedDarklyArmedDarkly21 päivä sitten
  • I bet you hugged your doggie after this insanity

    Matthew ColvinMatthew Colvin21 päivä sitten
  • That's rape. If he's sleeping with her while she's not awake. it's rape. She needs to get away from him.

    yui funamiyui funami21 päivä sitten
  • 9:43 that's not an awkward situation, that's called rape

    ᴡᴀɴʜᴇᴅᴀᴡᴀɴʜᴇᴅᴀ21 päivä sitten
  • yep, I remember when my ex told me he would kill himself if I left, that he couldn't live without me and he felt awful, I told him to see a doctor and left

    S CS C21 päivä sitten
  • Does anyone got any updates on the husband taking advantage of sleeping wife story? I sincerely hope OP is alright

    LynLyn21 päivä sitten
  • Thumbnail makes me think of rabbits

    Kalani SaikoKalani Saiko21 päivä sitten
  • Last story...dear lord I hate ppl like his ex. Even if she is or isn't depressed or suicidal. It's literally people like her that have others thinking ppl with mental health issues are faking.

    Cherokee WardCherokee Ward22 päivää sitten
  • OP from the story thinking her husband did the dirty while she was a sleep...she posted an update on it 4 months back. It's been deleted but from I got from the comments...yea he did do the naughty with her as she slept. Stated a bunch of other things first that he did to her or using her hand on him...ew. This is literally s*xually assault. Yes there are some ppl that like to be waken up with their partner doing the dirty to them while they are asleep but they have that almost like..scheduled. An they read another an make sure its okay the night before an ect. OPs husband needs to be charged. I hope she's okay an left his nasty *ss

    Cherokee WardCherokee Ward22 päivää sitten
  • The anime community does not claim this guy

    Sara BlakeSara Blake22 päivää sitten
  • Who's Rem?

    Yann AssunçãoYann Assunção22 päivää sitten
  • The girl with the dog--Take your ex to court and get a no contact order, reminding the judge that he abandoned his other dog.

    Rebecca RoweRebecca Rowe22 päivää sitten
  • Honry jail

    xTOFUxxTOFUx22 päivää sitten
  • Give him a costume of Tarzan

    KK PKK P22 päivää sitten
  • I used to date a girl like this! She was mentally and emotionally abusive, whenever we would get into an argument she would threaten me with suicide and it worked until she kept doing it so often to the point where I became numb to them and then when I finally broke up with her she said that I should kill myself

    Shinohara445Shinohara44522 päivää sitten
  • I play lots of roles in the bedroom. My husband and I have a great sex/ normal life, even though I'm not the babysitter, his secretary, an escort, or random stranger. Changing it up and having fun doesn't make one racist, even if they happen to look like the race in which you fantasize. No wonder the divorce and cheating rates are so high. You all have your heads too far up your own butts.

    Charlene BlackCharlene Black22 päivää sitten
  • If you help someone else cheat, that means you are okay with cheating. Which means that there's a good chance of him cheating on OP as well, should the opportunity arise.

    SuperSenshiSuperSenshi22 päivää sitten
  • Ngl, the first one was a bit weird, but anyway, OP has the right to choose how to dress

    MrGames #ToddynMrGames #Toddyn22 päivää sitten
  • I’m a little concerned over you calling rape and awkward situation...it’s rape. it’s a felony. And on top of that telling the rape victim to stay in the house where she’s raped every night, I just really wish you would’ve handled this better. it’s important that everyone who watches your videos realize the gravity of what happened to OP and how it was rape. I hope this doesn’t come off as condescending or angry but it was just very upsetting as a woman and an assault victim. I hope you’ll take this to heart when filming other videos

    maddy tmaddy t22 päivää sitten
  • News flash: marriage doesn't mean that all sex is consensual. Your marriage partner can rape you. It is difficult for these cases to go to court especially when women are concerned. There was a case where a women recorded herself only to find out that her husband has been drugging her and raping her in her sleep. The court ruled in his favor because there was no evidence of her saying no and because she is his wife and should engage in sex with him. She had to continue living with her husband, her rapist, without him being charged.

    Jennifer LopezJennifer Lopez22 päivää sitten
  • Holy frig. That’s nasty and racist.

    ArminArmin22 päivää sitten

    Furwest CharlleyFurwest Charlley22 päivää sitten
  • This third story is making me physically ill. Oh my god.

    Meghan CobournMeghan Cobourn22 päivää sitten
  • Sounds like the last GF doesn’t have depression and was using it as a way to manipulate OP

    TheRuneTailTheRuneTail22 päivää sitten
  • There's a song I like that says "instead of saying I would die for you say I'm living because of you" Trigger warning. I was suicidal and am still chronically depressed (I've been diagnosed several times) and once I started talking more and more with my gf (before dating) the feeling that I was drowning lifted. Before her I would try to kill myself for the most petty things, not as a manipulation tactic, because I would never announce it, but more like "I don't even want to live, why should I stand this bs?" And eat pounds of sleeping pills. I ended in a comma twice, and once I almost bleed to death in the hospital because I cut myself when they thought I was sleeping off the meds. Once I started liking her I started feeling better, and it's not just that I wanted to give her a good impression, she's kind of stubborn and naive at times, but she's incredibly smart and the kindest soul ever. She heals me just by being near me. Just... idk, I don't need love or appreciation, I have always been like this so I'm not depressed because of that. Sounds codependent but it's not. I don't feel like I want to die anymore, I still feel like shit emotionally, but even if she were to break up with me I would survive, because the idea of her blaming herself of my death makes me sad. And I think is more like "I love you so much I'm going to die" is so selfish, but "I'm gonna do the best of this life because I want you to be proud of me because I recognize you care for me and appreciate it" is true love, or something like that, maybe less cheesy. If you are in a toxic relationship and feel like "why should I get better if my partner doesn't" then break up. If you feel like "I want to be the best me so I can bring the best from my partner" then be clear so your partner becomes the best they can be, if they don't, break up. I think we fixate so much on what others do, that we forget that most of our emotions come from ourselves, so we don't recognize toxic behavior if it's not blatantly abusive. You have to need only yourself so you can appreciate a partner, like "sure, I'm ok by myself, but even tho I need nothing from others what you give me is an incredible gift that I appreciate. I love you for who you are in my life, not for what you give me" so yeah, that.

    Hararin GlossHararin Gloss22 päivää sitten
  • "My boyfriend is a conservative with an Asian fetish"

    Alexander PalmerAlexander Palmer22 päivää sitten
  • I was one of those girlfriends when I was in my late teens early twenties..I had an undiagnosed bpd and didn't have any family except him so he was literally my whole world. I ended it in a similar manor too...geez how cringe..but we are friends now and me and his wife are good friends too. So you can be a nice untoxic person too. It is a choice you make.

    Ida JakobssonIda Jakobsson22 päivää sitten
  • Being the degenerate I am I see nothing wrong here-

    Toga HimikoToga Himiko22 päivää sitten
  • omg i relate so much to the cheating (depressed) gf story

    Mr NobodyMr Nobody22 päivää sitten
  • it’s rape and u need to call the cops

    vicky and daniel fishervicky and daniel fisher22 päivää sitten
  • You don't need to be Japanese to dress up as Japanese anime characters

    Sonu BossSonu Boss22 päivää sitten
  • Custody battle over a pet. Only in USA

    Heli HelläHeli Hellä22 päivää sitten
  • degenerates amirite?

    Rage of oresRage of ores22 päivää sitten
  • Mess with the Waifu, get the knifu, I love it

    Jen StoddardJen Stoddard22 päivää sitten
  • I believe the Kawaii waifu thing is just a meme. He just wants her to do for the fun of it. Simply saying "no" is fine, he should understand what she shouldn't want to do and not force her into something she's not comfortable to doing. It's mott racist, it's just a meme. A lot of girls do it but not all. Still it should be understood and spoken about together.

    QuietQuiet22 päivää sitten
  • My Ex would say he would die without me and would emotionally abuse me. I was able to end the relationship when I suddenly realize I didn't care if he did anymore.

    Oline WrightOline Wright22 päivää sitten
  • Yep for the 1st story not all people who watch anime do that

    ThefoxingamerThefoxingamer22 päivää sitten
  • Lots of people tend to forget that mental and emotional abuse is a thing. That last story had a lot, and I mean a lot of similarities to me and my abuser of five years. She would cry and say she would commit suicide if I didn't do what she said. She'd say that if I stopped hanging out with her, she'd end herself and I'd be alone cuz she was the only one who cared for me (bullshit), and took many pictures of her bleeding arms, blaming me for causing it until I agreed to whatever she wanted. Mental and emotional abuse isn't talked about enough, and it needs to be so people can be more aware

    Spicy PacifistSpicy Pacifist22 päivää sitten
  • You mess with the waifu, you get the knifu. Don’t know if you made it up in the fly or heard it somewhere, but either way it made my day.

    lianghong zhoulianghong zhou23 päivää sitten
  • How is having a sexual kink for Japanese women racist ? Does this youtuber not understand what racist means ? How is wanting your GF to be more kinky racist ??

    Claude WintersClaude Winters23 päivää sitten
  • The thumb nail is rem out of re zero right or am i delusional

    UnderGlow lUnderGlow l23 päivää sitten
  • I was stuck in a relationship like that last story where I was too afraid of what they might do if I broke up with them but I was also unhappy with the relationship. I wanted to stay with them to help them but in the end it was just hurting me. I had to bite the bullet one day and just end things. I was glad I did because once I was out of the relationship, it helped me realize just how manipluative they were.

    DudeN1ceDudeN1ce23 päivää sitten
  • Rem

    JustredboneJustredbone23 päivää sitten
  • The lady on meds 7nsure if her husband has been, using her.. wet patch?

    Emski SEmski S23 päivää sitten
  • Its the ones who doesn't talk about self harming or committing suicide that are the one to do it My mum always says

    kris macdonellkris macdonell23 päivää sitten
  • Hehe loved that Mess with the "Waifu get the knifu" gonna use that sometime :D

    SilentRoses MusicSilentRoses Music23 päivää sitten
  • Im an anime fan but the first story crept me out, if he passes your boundiers, CHOP his head off with Tanjiros sword! (That is a joke btw, drop him like a bad habit if he does that)

    Alysia SlatteryAlysia Slattery23 päivää sitten
  • Dude, just setting up a camera is one of the worst ideas you have ever said, it's fucking obvious, it's basic biology, you don't get pregnant without sex, we know what's going on, the only possible path forward is to deal with this NOW!!!! YOU DON'T NEED TO WAIT UNTILL YOU HAVE VIDEO PROOF YOUR BEING RAPED, THAT'S NOT NECCISARY AND I'M GENUINELY DISGUSTED that you would dare suggjest that she just let it happen so she can record it. She needs to address it head on immediately, this is rape, it's not theft, It's not using something without permission, it's violating someone's basic freedom and safty! I can see it potentially being worked out, but if he continues denying it then definitely not, he's only an very because he doesn't want her thinking it's ok for her to even think that because he's clearly lieing because if it were to be addressed it would become apperent that he's lieing, simple as that

    jak kosjak kos23 päivää sitten
  • That person's husband (the one with the medical condition) is literally assaulting her in her sleep. Not awake = no consent

    PixiPixi23 päivää sitten
  • Some times embryos dont develop until serten medicaton is taken on a scegel

    the ender Teamthe ender Team23 päivää sitten
  • To BF in the first story: You're a straight up pervert, man.

    kenshinflyerkenshinflyer23 päivää sitten
  • I shouldn't be saying this cuz I'm a 16 year old but hearing someone being a child really hurts man

    Zack The ReaperZack The Reaper23 päivää sitten
  • I looked away and I thought the depressed girl cheating was a story that happened to him not a post

    Robo BeechRobo Beech23 päivää sitten
  • “Mess with the waifu, get the knifu.”

    Andrew LiAndrew Li23 päivää sitten
  • as someone who DOES have depression and a history of self harm, i made sure my girlfriend knew that it was never her fault. it didn’t matter if we’d had a fight or if i’d been hurt by something she said, it was never her fault. even if we break up and i start to self harm again, i made sure she knows it’s not her fault, i just can’t cope with stress well and she never is and never will be responsible for my actions. that story is disgusting

    Reese McKennaReese McKenna23 päivää sitten
    • Not everyone is as nice as a partner as you are

      amirvader22amirvader2223 päivää sitten
  • I think it's sad I know EXACTLY who the character on the thumbnail is... (RenRen Re:zero, btw)

    None YabiznessNone Yabizness23 päivää sitten
  • If anyone uses their mental illness to manipulate and guilt you, get out. Been there, done that, it’s horrible for your own mental state. Don’t let them hold that over your head.

    Delta the ComicDelta the Comic23 päivää sitten